Episode #24 The IEP That Almost Failed Him
Aug 02, 2025๐ช
๐ฌ The IEP That Almost Failed Him: What Every Parent and Educator Needs to Know
By Jenn Hunter | The Learning Project Podcast
๐ง Based on Episode #24 – Listen now or read on!
๐ฅ Free resource: learning-project.com/redflags
When a student falls through the cracks, it’s not just a failure of academics—it’s a failure of the system.
In this week’s episode of The Learning Project Podcast, I share the true story of a 17-year-old student who was just weeks away from being quietly pushed out of school—with no support, no accountability, and no one stepping in… until we did.
He had an active IEP.
He had documented needs.
He was trying.
And yet—he was about to be failed by the very team that was supposed to help him succeed.
๐ง Listen to Episode 24 now: The IEP That Almost Failed Him
๐ฅ Download your free resource: 5 Red Flags Every Parent Should Know
๐ง What the IEP Promised vs. What Actually Happened
This student had been on an IEP since elementary school. His learning plan clearly stated that he needed:
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Check-ins during independent work
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Support for executive functioning
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Testing accommodations
But in his psychological report, the evaluator wrote:
“He appeared attentive during whole group instruction, but during independent time, he put his head down… and no one checked on him.”
Let that sink in.
He wasn’t failing the system—the system was failing him.
And when we asked why he was missing so many classes, the team blamed him—not the fact that no one had followed up when he was gone for entire class periods.
โ ๏ธ The Final IEP Meeting… and a Shocking Update
At the final meeting of the year—just days before school ended—we learned he was failing all his classes.
But at the previous meeting? He was passing three.
No calls home. No intervention. No plan. Just silence.
It wasn’t just a misstep—it was neglect.
And without a strong advocate in the room, this student would’ve been pushed toward continuation school or worse—dropped out altogether.
๐ What Changed Everything
Here’s what advocacy looks like in action:
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We reopened test windows
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We reviewed missing work and deadlines
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We met with teachers and clarified expectations
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We reminded the team of his IEP goals—and why they exist
We even advocated for him in PE, where he was participating daily but struggling with dressing out—something directly tied to his disability.
This student didn’t need pity.
He needed someone to say:
“You’re capable. I believe in you. And I’m going to help you get through this—with support and accountability.”
Now? He’s working toward credit recovery.
And our goal? Graduation with his class. ๐
๐ What Every Parent Needs to Know
This isn’t just one story—it’s a pattern we see too often.
IEPs get written, but not followed.
Students get blamed, but not supported.
Families get left in the dark, and kids pay the price.
That’s why we created Advocacy With Heart—to make sure no parent ever has to navigate this alone.
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โก๏ธ 5 Red Flags Every Parent Should Know About IEP Implementation
This quick, practical guide will help you spot the signs when something isn’t right—and empower you to take action with confidence.
๐ฅ The Takeaway
This student didn’t need a monitor.
He needed a mentor.
Someone who could step in with structure, consistency, and belief.
Because the IEP isn’t just a legal document—it’s a promise.
Let’s make sure we’re keeping it.
Let’s make sure every child is seen, supported, and set up to succeed—not silently dismissed.
If you’re a parent wondering, “Is my child getting what they need?” — start with this checklist.
And if you’re an educator, admin, or community partner—be the voice in the room that holds the system accountable.
Together, we can change the story.
๐๏ธ The Learning Project Podcast | Hosted by Jenn Hunter
๐ฅ Download the free checklist: learning-project.com/redflags
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